Writer: ‘Misperceptions, prenatal screening threaten diversity’
May 25th, 2008
Stephanie Meredith, past co-president of the Down Syndrome Association of Atlanta, sends a response to Leslie Roberts’ blog post: ‘When abortion may be an acceptable choice.’ Roberts, a Canadian newsman and television personality, had written that abortion may be an acceptable choice when a disability is diagnosed prenatally.
Meredith writes:
Far from adding unendurable stress, parents of children with Down syndrome indicate that the stress involved with raising a child with Down syndrome is lower than expected (Hodapp et. al. 2001) and that families enjoy positive benefits from raising a child with Down syndrome (Blacher & Baker 2006). In fact, research suggests the parents of children with Down syndrome actually experience a lower divorce rate than couples who do not have children with Down syndrome (Urbano & Hodapp 2007), and the siblings of children with Down syndrome are typically more compassionate and well-adjusted than their peers (Dykens 2005).
While the reasons for this have not been fully explored and since most parents would resolutely deny the claim that they are saints, the evidence suggests that there is something to be learned from embracing genetic diversity. The majority of parents I have encountered as the former co-president of the Down Syndrome Association of Atlanta found that the greatest source of stress for them originated not from the child with Down syndrome but from difficulty accessing social supports and acceptance. Instead of languishing in institutions as was the standard practice just twenty or thirty years ago, when individuals with Down syndrome have been given the opportunity to “make real the promises of democracy” by fully participating in education, community, healthcare and employment, they have flourished as a whole (King 1963).
In just one generation, improvements in healthcare have almost doubled the life expectancy since the 1980′s (Yang, Rasmussen & Friedman 2002). Furthermore, since children with Down syndrome were granted the right to a public education in 1975 and early education services in 1986 in the United States, they have increasingly graduated from high school, attended college, and worked in various professions. So, for one generation, a window was opened to allow them basic rights, and they seized it and thrived. Unfortunately, the progress of this generation has gone unnoticed by most of society, including some in the medical profession. So, the outdated perceptions of people with Down syndrome who were never given those basic rights is held up as the standard for what people with Down syndrome can achieve, and the existential threat to this diverse population looms when prenatal screening is coupled with these outdated perceptions.
Indeed, Down syndrome stands on the precipice of an even greater debate about prenatal screening. What is society willing to sacrifice in terms of diversity as this standard of “suffering” begins to be applied to cystic fibrosis, autism, a family history of breast cancer, and more? Instead of improving the lives of these individuals with medical and social advancements and embracing their contributions to society, is it better to deny their existence altogether?
References:
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360–364.King, M.L. (1963). I Have a Dream. Retrieved May 24, 2008,
from http://www.americanrhetoric.com/speeches/mlkihaveadream.htmYang, Q., Rasmussen, S.A., Friedman, J.M.
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May 26th, 2008 at 10:00 am
I agree completely! I was so worried when my son was a baby because I was afraid that his life (and mine) would be miserable as a result of him having Down syndrome. But I have found that that is very much not the case.
Any ‘stress’ that I have as the parent of a young son with Ds is directly related to society’s acceptance of him. But since I have realized that if someone can’t accept him, it is their problem, not mine, my stress level has lowered considerably.
Most people, if they take the time to actually get to know Danny a little, realize that he enjoys life tremendously, and that he is not — by any stretch of the imagination — a ‘burden’ to our family (or to society).
He is the youngest of our 7 kids, and the favorite of all of his siblings. He has taught them compassion and he loves them as much as they love him. They all take time to teach him skills so that he can be as independent as possible, and they do it not because they have to, but because they love him and believe that helping him is worth their time.
People with Down syndrome are not the only ones who ever get sick..who are born with heart defects, etc. No child’s future independence is certain.
And it just amazes me that someone would suggest that babies with Ds should be aborted because of medical problems or concerns for their future. If the biological parent is unable/unwilling to raise a child with Ds who has medical problems, there is a long waiting list of families who would gladly and lovingly raise the child…so there really is no need to abort a baby based on a diagnosis of Ds.
I am certainly no saint..I was very upset when I was told that my unborn child probably had Ds…even more upset when the diagnosis was confirmed at his birth. But I have discovered that my fears of what life would be like were all unfounded. My son is a great kid..he truly is one of the most loving people I have ever known, and — far from worrying about his future — I have every confidence that he will have a full and meaningful life, and will be a blessing to those he comes in contact with.
It makes me sad that expectant parents are being given such negative information when they receive a diagnosis of Ds that they think that they are doing the ‘loving’ thing to abort the baby. Nothing could be farther from the truth.
May 25th, 2008 at 7:43 am
Beautifully reasoned, beautifully written.